Children

In a divorce or relationship break-up, it can be the children who suffer more than anyone.  bbl family law is a ‘child-centred’ family law firm and we are able to offer the support and advice that parents require to put the needs of their children first.

The breakdown of a family has a lasting effect on children and children can feel confused and bewildered.  They need the support of their parents, and the adults around them, to provide the stability and security they need.

Deciding how best to look after any children should be one of the overriding priorities for any couple going their separate ways.
This involves minimising the impact upon the children’s daily lives where possible, ensuring they are provided for financially and making sure they continue to benefit from being with both parents wherever possible.

bbl family law is able to offer a range of options to separating parents when they are deciding what arrangements are best for their children.  Parents can discuss arrangements within the mediation process in a calm and neutral environment.  Alternatively our experienced lawyers can advise and assist you within the collaborative law process.  In the event of a dispute it may be necessary to adopt a more traditional approach and court proceedings may be necessary.

Whatever the process you choose to adopt our experienced family lawyers are able to offer you the best possible advice and guidance.
The law is there to protect children and the rights of children are considered first and foremost.

If a couple split up and are not married, only the mother has automatic parental responsibility. The father may also have parental responsibility depending on when the child was born and if the father’s name is on the birth certificate.
Parental responsibility refers to the rights and privileges which underpin the relationship between a child and either of the child’s parents or those adults who have a significant role in the child’s life.

When separating parents are in dispute over the arrangements for their children they can apply to the court for a judge to determine what those arrangements should be.  If parents cannot agree which parent their children should live with a residence order can be made.

Parents who do not live with their children need to regularly see their children, know where they are living and have access to certain information about their upbringing, such as how they are doing at school.  If parents cannot agree arrangements they may apply to the court for a contact order and/or a specific issue order.